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Chapter
IV.—Of the Infirmity of the Flesh, and Similar Pleas.
But we read “that the flesh is
weak;”370 and hence we
soothe371
371 Adulamur:
“we fawn upon,” or “caress,” or
“flatter.” Comp. de Pæn., c. vi. sub
init.: “flatter their own sweetness.” | ourselves in some cases. Yet we read,
too, that “the spirit is strong;”372
372 “Firmum,”
opp. to “infirmam” above. In the passage there
referred to (Matt. xxvi.
41) the word is πρόθυμον. | for
each clause occurs in one and the same sentence. Flesh is an
earthly, spirit a heavenly, material. Why, then, do we, too prone
to self-excuse, put forward (in our defence) the weak part of us, but
not look at373
373 Tuemur. Mr.
Dodgson renders, “guard not.” | the strong? Why
should not the earthly yield to the heavenly? If the spirit is
stronger than the flesh, because it is withal of nobler origin, it is
our own fault if we follow the weaker. Now there are two
phases374 of human weakness which make
marriages375
375 i.e., apparently
second marriages: “disjunctis a
matrimonio” can scarcely include such as were never
“juncti;” and comp. the “præmissis
maritis” below. | necessary to such as
are disjoined from matrimony. The first and most powerful is that
which arises from fleshly concupiscence; the second, from
worldly concupiscence. But by us, who are servants of God,
who renounce both voluptuousness and ambition, each is to be
repudiated. Fleshly concupiscence claims the functions of adult
age, craves after beauty’s harvest, rejoices in its own shame,
pleads the necessity of a husband to the female sex, as a source of
authority and of comfort, or to render it safe from evil rumours.
To meet these its counsels, do you apply the examples of sisters of
ours whose names are with the Lord,376
376 Comp. Phil. iv. 3; 2 Tim. ii. 19; Mal. iii.
16; and similar passages. | —who, when
their husbands have preceded them (to glory), give to no opportunity of
beauty or of age the precedence over holiness. They prefer to be
wedded to God. To God their beauty, to God their youth (is
dedicated). With Him they live; with Him they converse; Him they
“handle”377
377 1 John i. 1; Luke xxiv. 39; John xx.
17. | by day and by night;
to the Lord they assign their prayers as dowries; from
Him, as oft as they desire it, they receive His approbation378 as dotal gifts. Thus they have laid
hold for themselves of an eternal gift of the Lord; and while on earth,
by abstaining from marriage, are already counted as belonging to the
angelic family. Training yourself to an emulation of (their)
constancy by the examples of such women, you will by spiritual
affection bury that fleshly concupiscence, in abolishing the
temporal379 and fleeting desires
of beauty and youth by the compensating gain of immortal
blessings.
On the other hand, this worldly
concupiscence (to which I referred) has, as its causes, glory,
cupidity, ambition, want of sufficiency; through which causes it trumps
up the “necessity” for marrying,—promising itself,
forsooth, heavenly things in return—to lord it, (namely,) in
another’s family; to roost380 on
another’s wealth; to extort splendour from another’s store
to lavish expenditure381 which you do not
feel! Far be all this from believers, who have no care about
maintenance, unless it be that we distrust the promises of God, and
(His) care and providence, who clothes with such grace the lilies of
the field;382 who, without any
labour on their part, feeds the fowls of the heaven;383
who prohibits care to be taken about to-morrow’s food and
clothing,384 promising that He
knows what is needful for each of His servants—not indeed
ponderous necklaces, not burdensome garments, not Gallic mules nor
German bearers, which all add lustre to the glory of nuptials; but
“sufficiency,”385 which is suitable to
moderation and modesty. Presume, I pray you, that you have need
of nothing if you “attend upon the Lord;”386
nay, that you have all things, if you have the Lord, whose are all
things. Think often387 on things heavenly,
and you will despise things earthly. To widowhood signed and
sealed before the Lord nought is necessary but
perseverance.E.C.F. INDEX & SEARCH
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