CHAPTER 7
1Co 7:1-40.
REPLY TO
THEIR
INQUIRIES AS TO
MARRIAGE; THE
GENERAL
PRINCIPLE IN
OTHER
THINGS
IS,
ABIDE IN
YOUR
STATION, FOR THE
TIME
IS
SHORT.
1. The Corinthians in their letter had probably asked questions which
tended to disparage marriage, and had implied that it was better to
break it off when contracted with an unbeliever.
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good--that is, "expedient," because of "the present distress"; that
is, the unsettled state of the world, and the likelihood of persecutions
tearing rudely asunder those bound by marriage ties.
Heb 13:4,
in opposition to ascetic and Romish notions of superior sanctity
in celibacy, declares, "Marriage is HONORABLE IN
ALL." Another reason why in some cases celibacy may be a matter
of Christian expediency is stated in
1Co 7:34, 35,
"that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction." But these are
exceptional cases, and in exceptional times, such as those of Paul.
2. Here the general rule is given
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to avoid fornication--More literally,
"on account of fornications," to which as being very prevalent at
Corinth, and not even counted sins among the heathen, unmarried persons
might be tempted. The plural, "fornications," marks irregular
lusts, as contrasted with the unity of the marriage relation
[BENGEL].
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let every man have--a positive command to all who have not the gift
of continency, in fact to the great majority of the world
(1Co 7:5).
The dignity of marriage is set forth by Paul
(Eph 5:25-32),
in the fact that it signifies the mystical union between Christ and the
Church.
3, 4. The duty of cohabitation on the part of the married.
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due benevolence--The oldest manuscripts read simply, "her due"; that
is, the conjugal cohabitation due by the marriage contract (compare
1Co 7:4).
4. A paradox. She hath not power over her body, and yet it is
her own. The oneness of body in which marriage places husband
and wife explains this. The one complements the other. Neither without
the other realizes the perfect ideal of man.
5. Defraud . . . not--namely, of the conjugal duty "due"
(1Co 7:3;
compare the Septuagint,
Ex 21:10).
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except it be--"unless perchance" [ALFORD].
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give yourselves to--literally, "be at leisure for"; be
free from interruptions for; namely, on some special "season,"
as the Greek for "time" means (compare
Ex 19:15;
Joe 2:16;
Zec 7:3).
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fasting and prayer--The oldest manuscripts omit "fasting and"; an
interpolation, evidently, of ascetics.
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come together--The oldest manuscripts read, "be together," namely,
in the regular state of the married.
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Satan--who often thrusts in his temptations to unholy thoughts amidst
the holiest exercises.
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for your incontinency--because of your inability to "contain"
(1Co 7:9)
your natural propensities, which Satan would take advantage of.
6. by permission . . . not of commandment--not
by God's permission to me to say it: but, "by way of permission to
you, not as a commandment." "This" refers to the directions,
1Co 7:2-5.
7. even as I--having tile gift of continence
(Mt 19:11, 12).
This wish does not hold good absolutely, else the extension of mankind
and of the Church would cease; but relatively to "the present distress"
(1Co 7:26).
8. to the unmarried--in general, of both sexes
(1Co 7:10, 11).
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and widows--in particular.
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even as I--unmarried
(1Co 9:5).
9. if they cannot contain--that is, "have not continency."
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burn--with the secret flame of lust, which lays waste the whole inner
man. (Compare AUGUSTINE [Holy Virginity]). The dew of God's grace
is needed to stifle the flame, which otherwise would thrust men at last
into hell-fire.
10. not I, but the Lord--(Compare
1Co 7:12, 25, 40).
In ordinary cases he writes on inspired apostolic authority
(1Co 14:37);
but here on the direct authority of the Lord Himself
(Mr 10:11, 12).
In both cases alike the things written are inspired by the Spirit of
God "but not all for all time, nor all on the primary truths of the
faith" [ALFORD].
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Let not the wife depart--literally, "be separated from." Probably
the separation on either side, whether owing to the husband or to the
wife, is forbidden.
11. But and if she depart--or "be separated." If the sin of
separation has been committed, that of a new marriage is not to be
added
(Mt 5:32).
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be reconciled--by appeasing her husband's displeasure, and recovering
his good will.
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let not . . . husband put away . . . wife--In
Mt 5:32
the only exception allowed is, "saving for the cause of
fornication."
12. to the rest--the other classes (besides "the married,"
1Co 7:10,
where both husband and wife are believers) about whom the Corinthians
had inquired, namely, those involved in mixed marriages with
unbelievers.
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not the Lord--by any direct command spoken by Him.
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she be pleased--Greek, "consents": implying his wish in the first
instance, with which hers concurs.
13. the woman--a believer.
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let her not leave him--"her husband," instead of "him," is the
reading of the oldest manuscripts The Greek for "leave" is the
same as in
1Co 7:12,
"put away"; translate, "Let her not put away [that is, part
with] her husband." The wife had the power of effecting a divorce by
Greek and Roman law.
14. sanctified--Those inseparably connected with the people of God
are hallowed thereby, so that the latter may retain the connection
without impairing their own sanctity (compare
1Ti 4:5);
nay, rather imparting to the former externally some degree of their own
hallowed character, and so preparing the way for the unbeliever
becoming at last sanctified inwardly by faith.
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by . . . by--rather, "in . . . in"; that is, in virtue of the
marriage tie between them.
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by the husband--The oldest manuscripts read, "by the brother." It is
the fact of the husband being a "brother," that is, a Christian, though
the wife is not so, that sanctifies or hallows the union.
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else . . . children unclean--that is, beyond the hallowed pale of
God's people: in contrast to "holy," that is, all that is within the
consecrated limits [CONYBEARE and
HOWSON]. The phraseology accords with
that of the Jews, who regarded the heathen as "unclean," and all of the
elect nation as "holy," that is, partakers of the holy covenant.
Children were included in the covenant, as God made it not only with
Abraham, but with his "seed after" him
(Ge 17:7).
So the faith of one Christian parent gives to the children a near
relationship to the Church, just as if both parents were Christians
(compare
Ro 11:16).
Timothy, the bearer of this Epistle, is an instance in point
(Ac 16:1).
Paul appeals to the Corinthians as recognizing the principle, that the
infants of heathen parents would not be admissible to Christian
baptism, because there is no faith on the part of the parents; but
where one parent is a believer, the children are regarded as not aliens
from, but admissible even in infancy as sharers in, the Christian
covenant: for the Church presumes that the believing parent will rear
the child in the Christian faith. Infant baptism tacitly superseded
infant circumcision, just as the Christian Lord's day gradually
superseded the Jewish sabbath, without our having any express command
for, or record of, transference. The setting aside of circumcision and
of sabbaths in the case of the Gentiles was indeed expressly commanded
by the apostles and Paul, but the substitution of infant baptism and of
the Lord's day were tacitly adopted, not expressly enacted. No explicit
mention of it occurs till IRENÆUS in the
third century; but no society of Christians that we read of disputed
its propriety till fifteen hundred years after Christ. Anabaptists
would have us defer baptism till maturity as the child cannot
understand the nature of it. But a child may be made heir of an estate:
it is his, though incapable at the time of using or comprehending its
advantage; he is not hereafter to acquire the title and claim to
it: he will hereafter understand his claim, and be capable of employing
his wealth: he will then, moreover, become responsible for the use he
makes of it [ARCHBISHOP WHATELY].
15. if . . . depart--that is, wishes for separation. Translate,
"separateth himself": offended with her Christianity, and refusing to
live with her unless she renounce it.
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brother or a sister is not under bondage--is not bound to renounce
the faith for the sake of retaining her unbelieving husband [HAMMOND].
So
De 13:6;
Mt 10:35-37;
Lu 14:26.
The believer does not lie under the same obligation in the case of a
union with an unbeliever, as in the case of one with a believer. In the
former case he is not bound not to separate, if the unbeliever separate
or "depart," in the latter nothing but "fornication" justifies
separation [PHOTIUS in Æcumenius].
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but God hath called us to peace--Our Christian calling is one that
tends to "peace"
(Ro 12:18),
not quarrelling; therefore the believer should not ordinarily depart
from the unbelieving consort
(1Co 7:12-14),
on the one hand; and on the other, in the exceptional case of the
unbeliever desiring to depart, the believer is not bound to force the
other party to stay in a state of continual discord
(Mt 5:32).
Better still it would be not to enter into such unequal alliances at
all
(1Co 7:40;
2Co 6:14).
16. What knowest thou but that by staying with thy unbelieving partner
thou mayest save him or her? Enforcing the precept to stay with the
unbelieving consort
(1Co 7:12-14).
So Ruth the Moabitess became a convert to her husband's faith: and
Joseph and Moses probably gained over their wives. So conversely the
unbelieving husband may be won by the believing wife
(1Pe 3:1)
[CALVIN]. Or else
(1Co 7:15),
if thy unbelieving consort wishes to depart, let him go, so that thou
mayest live "in peace": for thou canst not be sure of converting
him, so as to make it obligatory on thee at all costs to stay with
him against his will [MENOCHIUS and ALFORD].
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save--be the instrument of salvation to
(Jas 5:20).
17. But--Greek, "If not." "Only." Caution that believers should
not make this direction
(1Co 7:16;
as ALFORD explains it) a ground for separating "of
themselves"
(1Co 7:12-14).
Or, But if there be no hope of gaining over the
unbeliever, still let the general principle be maintained, "As the
Lord hath allotted to each, as God hath called each, so let
him walk" (so the Greek in the oldest reading); let him walk in
the path allotted to him and wherein he was called. The heavenly
calling does not set aside our earthly callings.
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so ordain I in all churches--Ye also therefore should obey.
18. not become uncircumcised--by surgical operation
(1 Maccabees 1:15;
JOSEPHUS [Antiquities, 12.5.1]). Some
Christians in excess of anti-Jewish feeling might be tempted to this.
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let him not be circumcised--as the Judaizing Christians would have
him
(Ac 15:1, 5, 24;
Ga 5:2).
19. Circumcision . . . nothing, but . . .
keeping of . . . commandments of God--namely, is all in
all. In
Ga 5:6
this "keeping of the commandments of God" is defined to be "faith which
worketh by love"; and in
Ga 6:15,
"a new creature." Circumcision was a commandment of God: but not for
ever, as "love."
20. the same calling--that is, the condition from which he is
called a Jew, a Greek, a slave, or a freeman.